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Harish
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Posted 13-05-2010Reply

Dear friends, I wanted to ask you a question today and I hope we would have some good perspectives thrown up to cover all the tangents involved.



Mr. X and Ms. Y, working in the same company are romantically involved with each other. In simple terms, they are in love. As a society, we are voyeuristic by nature and hence this becomes the biggest office gossip. Eventually it comes to the HR department. Here I would mention that the two said individuals are top performers, do not work in the same teams, and have never showed in-appropriate behaviour on the floor.



My question to each one of you is, what should be the HR department’s response ? Please try to cover your responses on various tangents that include behavioural, moral and organizational aspects.



Look forward to a meaningful discussion among the best brains in the industry.



Regards, Harish



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  Rated +4 | Posted 13-05-2010

Hi Harish..

This is very good post.
Professional and personal life are different. The said both the individuals are perfectly maintaining it. Though they have affairs with each other and they have their own limits in office. So as from HR perspective, No action can be taken against them.

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Karthik

Harish
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  Rated +1 | Posted 13-05-2010

Hi Harish..



This is very good post.

Professional and personal life are differ... See HRR's complete reply


Thanks Karthik for your response and your views.

Regards, Harish

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  Rated +3 | Posted 13-05-2010

Hi Harish,
It is really a different post.
The Two Individuals, have never showed in-appropriate behaviour on the floor,then My opinion will be - HR Dept should not be punish the two individuals for this.They are not mixing up the personal things in their professional life.

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  Rated +4 | Posted 13-05-2010

HI Harish,

It's a Very good post...
In my view HR department has nothing to do... because they r the top performers of the team and in Individual teams.. even they r not disturbing the office environment... until and unless any employee complains abt this HR department won't involve.

Jagan

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  Rated +4 | Posted 13-05-2010

Hi Harish,


Good topic.HR Deptt don't need to interfere in between.Infact HR should stop those ones whose's efficiency is getting affected due to gossips.


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Alpna

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  Rated +4 | Posted 13-05-2010

why we should bother about their personal life.

on what basis u confirmed that they are romantically involved with each other

on what basis, the same has been reported to HR Department

How the person is affected by this story, that made the person to be report to HR Department

Ignore all these in Office Environment

When we give importance it grows Up..

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  Rated +3 | Posted 13-05-2010

Hi

Since the Professional life of the both has not been affected because of their personal matter and their floor behaviour is also good there is no need for HR interference on the same.

For more views on this matter please check in the below link for the related discussion in Citehr.com
http://www.citehr.com/244945-encouraging-married-couple-employment.html

Regards
Kartheka R

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  Rated +3 | Posted 13-05-2010

As per my suggestion HR depart. should not take any action as both are good performer and are not violating the rules of the company.

Harish
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  Rated 0 | Posted 13-05-2010

Dear Friends,

Thanks a bunch to all those who replied. I wanted to know the perspectives from various tangents. It would greatly benefit the readers if the same is covered.

Regards, Harish

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  Rated +5 | Posted 13-05-2010

Hi Harish

Here in Europe their lives are their own. As long as they don't bring it to work. As you say "Here I would mention that the two said individuals are top performers, do not work in the same teams, and have never showed in-appropriate behaviour on the floor." I think that says it all.

My advice is leave them alone, or you'll loose them both.

Neil



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