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Do Men Get Smart While Working With Smarter Women????
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"Man smart, Woman smarter", the catchy number sung by Harry Belafonte years ago may not be music for all men. According to a survey, 62 percent men are smarter while working alongside bold and aggressive women.

Conceptualized by TV channel CNN-IBN and conducted in several cities including Delhi, Kolkata, Mumbai, Chennai, Bangalore, Hyderabad, Lucknow, Jaipur, Patna, Bhopal, Pune, Kochi and Surat, the poll has taken views of men and women in the age group 18-50.

"It's a fact that women are more smart, informative and decisive and men are undoubtedly insecure. And I don't have any qualms in accepting that it becomes a pain most of the times working with such women because they constantly tend to circumcise your male ego knowingly or unknowingly," Ateet Aggarwal, a banker has opined.

"It becomes intolerable sometimes because at the end of the day there are huge ego hassles," he added.

Mumbai-based Chitresh Sinha agreed with Aggarwal and said: "When men work with women it's usually about proving themselves. It's a natural feeling and when you have a bold, aggressive woman working with you, it becomes much harder for men to prove themselves."

Adding to this, Zubin Kaul, a software professional, said: "I find it really uncomfortable to work with a female boss who is biased against men. They have this feeling that men are good for nothing and they look for opportunities to pull you down."

If we look at today's scenario - we have women at the top posts in every industry playing the lead role of a perfect boss to perfection. Some men feel that a female boss behaves like a "mad woman" if she is single.

"I had this bad experience of having a female boss who was single. She had no life of her own and wanted the staff to be in office till very late. She used to get these mood swings very often that it was very difficult to deal with her," recollected Randeep Singh.

"And things are very difficult to handle when it comes to dealing with a female boss. You just can't argue with them because you don't know how they will behave. Sometimes they are so adamant to prove themselves right that they refuse to even listen to your ideas," he added.

While some men find it really uncomfortable to work with bold women, PR executive Ankur Talwar has no problems working with aggressive women, but he feels that women "sometimes get hyper".

"I think women are great co-workers but at times they just get too hyper or emotional about a situation unnecessarily, which could have been dealt with a cool mind. Their reactions are always very surprising," explained Talwar.

In spite of the possibilities of having ego clashes and regular confrontations, mediaperson Biswadip Mitra doesn't mind working with tough female bosses, "as long as they don't violate office decorum".

"Honestly, I don't mind tough women as my boss or colleague as long as they do not violate office decorum or hurl insults. Simply because I am not used to insulting others. I can differ in my opinions, but there can be sober ways to express it," explained Mitra.

"I am not uncomfortable with aggressive women, if they work for the interest of the company or the department in general. However, if the person is just another egoistic lady who thinks that there cannot be a different view from others and all male colleagues are idiots, then I will certainly have a problem," he added.

*Comments and views of the learned members are invited on this topic.



Source: http://www.siliconindia.com/shownews/Men_smart_while_working_with_smarter_women-
Shipra
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  Rated +1 | Posted 20-08-2009

Woman has to be smart working with any man, those who are smart and more with those who tend to be smart.

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  Rated +1 | Posted 20-08-2009

In my opinion, it is just the ego or 'I' issue, boss can be Adamant to prove himself/herself right, any one can be crazy enough but it is wrong to say that woman boss is 'mad', i have seen lots of contrasts also.

i can think with a male boss, you can be more comfortable as you can go for smoke and some drinks (these are the moments when every one is very casual not formalities at all) while not possible with women (in general).

May be female bosses tend to be more strict with a thought 'how her subordinate will take her'

Being single is not the only cause for the attitude she has in the office.
Ya that's true woman is said to be more sincere (please don't take it otherwise) and the environment makes her more reserve.

but considering your boss 'mad' just because your boss is female is not justified.

today i read this discussion in Linked in have a look (i can't name the person)

To administer your office work along with household work is not a piece of cake. Since aeon a woman has been doing several tasks at the same time. The homely chores are her responsibility and her work gives her the liberty to live life on her own terms. Can a man come home from work all haggard but still work for several more hours in the kitchen?

I am sure that there are men who manage multiple jobs at a time but how efficient are they? A female manages to be more proficient and less sluggish at work place and at same time presents scrumptious food to her family even after a hectic day. Research has shown that women are indeed better at multi-tasking but with more amount of work burdening their shoulders, the stress level increases and thus the quality of work hinders.

When you concentrate on one thing at a time, the productivity is enhanced. Thus the results that a man delivers can be more striking because he avoids multi-tasking. A woman does multi-tasking because she has to. Over the years she has learnt to handle many things at a time. She can cook, assess her worksheet and manage her children; all together.

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  Rated 0 | Posted 20-08-2009

In my opinion, it is just the ego or 'I' issue, boss can be Adamant to prove himself/herse... See Shipra's complete reply


Thank you so much Shipra for your prompt and wonderful response.Let me see some more comments from our friends.

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