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we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame
Harshali
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Posted 24-12-2008Reply

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep It in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified and didn't know how to face her husband.



When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.









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1. What were the five words?





2. What is the implication of this story?









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The husband just said "I am with you Darling"





The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour.





The child was dead. He could never be brought back to life.



There was no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.





If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles Begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiving behavior, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.





MORAL OF THE STORY



Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. In this way we miss out the warmth in human relationships.









Ashutosh
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  Rated 0 | Posted 24-12-2008

Hi Harshali
Thanks for remind, as we have already read it in the forums,
Good massage for those who couldn’t read this earlier
One more thing I would like to add in this that is if we are working together either in office or home or in society try to take responsibility not defines it.
Regards
Ashutosh

Srilatha
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  Rated 0 | Posted 30-12-2008

Very Well said..thanks Harshali for sharing a lovely message.

Srinivas
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  Rated 0 | Posted 30-12-2008

Hi Harshali,

Heart touching message...

Thanks for sharing...

-Srinivas Hari

Ashok
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  Rated 0 | Posted 30-12-2008

good one thanks and heart touched mess

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