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The Fear of Rejection
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Posted 13-08-2009Reply

Hi,



Rejection is but just a concept: There is really no such thing as rejection! You’re not any worse off by hearing no than you were before you asked. You didn’t have what you asked for before you asked and you still don’t, so what did you lose?



Being rejected doesn’t hold you back from anything. Only YOU hold yourself back. When you realize that there’s no merit to rejection, you’ll feel more comfortable asking for things. You may just need a bit of help learning how to ask for what you want.



Asking for what one needs is probably the most underutilized tool. Whether its a date, money, information, support, assistance, or time, most people are afraid to ask for what they need or want.



They might be afraid of looking needy, ignorant, helpless, or even greedy. More than likely though, it is the fear of rejection that is holding them back. Even though they are afraid to hear the word no, they’re already saying it to themselves by not asking!



Rgds

Arun

 
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