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Hi,
VALUE OF PARENTS
A father was sitting on the sofa in his house along with
his highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their
window.
The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"
The Son replied "It is a crow".
After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time,
"What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you
"It's a crow".
After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son
the 3rd time, What is this?"
At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the
Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff.
"It's a crow, a crow".
A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th
time, "What is this?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you
keep asking me the same question again and again, although I
have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you
not able to understand this?"
A little later the Father went to his room and came back
with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since
his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to
read that page. When the son read it, the following words
were written in the diary :-
"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on
the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son
asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23
times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h
e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I
did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my
innocent child".
While the little child asked him 23 times "What is
this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to
the same question all 23 times and when today the Father
asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt
irritated and annoyed..
So..
If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look
at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be
cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to
your parents.
From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents
happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a
little child. They have always showered their selfless love
on me.
They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the
storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the
society today".
Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in
the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear
parents, no matter how they behave.
Thanks for spending ur time on reading this story.....
Rgds
Arun
Thank you so much Arun for sharing this post.
Yes true & agree with you,
Thanks for your response !!! Cherin
Yes !! Pradeep,
Indeed wht you have said is right,
Thanks a lot for your response too.
we usually tend to forget our parents due to our life style and some time we just dont want to take care of them...
I have seen... people feel ashamed 'cos of their old age and get irritated very easily and tend to avoid them.... I could see the parents getting hurt and pain in their eyes but still they always smile and never behave the same with their children.
I myself have been rude with my parents at times of anger but later realize and make up for it... but its not easy to wash away those hurt marks of wipe those tears.... though parents always forget and forgive us.
I miss my parents a lot... they are out of country since 4 months and will be back next year... :-(
Thanks for sharing this beautiful story... :-)
we usually tend to forget our parents due to our life style and some t... See Arpana's complete reply
Agree & go by you,
that we tend to forget our parents in their old age,
they have sacrificed for bringing us up going through all the pains,
and this is the point we care them,i see lots of people forgetting their parents,
due to the new lifestyles, thanks a lot for taking time & responding back.