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Most Commonly whispered word from people is “PROBLEM”
WHAT IS A PROBLEM?
“Doubtful or Difficult matter requiring a solution. Something hard to understand or accomplish.” as per Oxford Dictionary
PROBLEM MAY VARY FROM PERSON TO PERSON
EVERY ONE HAS THEIR OWN PROBLEM
“Problem is a Problem until you don’t know what is problem”
“Once you know the problem then there will not be problem & you can find the way to solution”
Most Common problems
• Human Being Don’t live in Presence
• Human Being is Double Minded
• We Try to change other
• We Expect more from the materialistic world
• We get anger frequently.
• We only work for any monetary benefit
• No Humanity
• No Fear of GOD
People Don’t live in Presence
Most of the People always live only in two things
•What Happened (past)
•What is going to Happen (Future)
No concentration on what is going around in the Presence
One Fact that you cannot change your ‘PAST’ then why to waste time
You cannot Stop anything suppose to occur in the Future, But you can make your Future by effectively working in the presence
Remember your past, Keep Future in Mind & Work in the Presence
2. We cannot stick to one decision.
Always two things come in mind when ever you do anything i.e.
1. It will happen
OR
2. It will not happen
99.9 % the second criteria comes first ‘IT WILL NOT’
• Because People think more Negative
• Because We don’t have the confidence on Oneself
• Because We don’t Trust any One
• Human mind is not constant, it speed runs faster than light
If you want to check your stability of mind sit in front of the Television & see a particular Channel for 2hrs without changing the channel and without touching the remote.
By Doing Meditation you can control your mind
3. We Try To change other
This is most common Problem comes in any relation that they try to Change Other.
• Everyone wants others should live as per their wish.
• They will never try to change themselves
• They will only try to change other
• You Can’t Change others
“When you drive the vehicle the control of the vehicle will be in your hand, if somebody comes ignorantly in front of vehicles what you will do. You can’t stop him because you don’t have the control of other mind. You can do only you can change your way or stop the vehicles”
Don't try to change other, Change yourself
4. We Get Anger
•The Biggest Enemy of the human being is ‘Anger’.
•People get Anger when their Expectation do not come to reality.
•We get Anger when we don’t like anything and someone do the same thing in front of us.
With Anger things goes very worse that people kill each other.
•Anger is like a Milk in a bowl kept on Fire
•After a certain time the milk reaches the Boiling point, then it comes out.
•At that moment if you full the Gas what happens.
•Similarly everyone has their own boiling point. After that they lose they temper
•How to Control the Milk/ Anger
There are three ways to Control the Milk
1.Close the Gas / Remove the fire
2.Remove the Milk Bowl from Fire OR
3.Put two three drops of water to the Milk
Similarly
1.Change/Close the Topic from which you get the anger.
2.Go away from that Place for that Moment OR
3.Try to learn to say Two Word i.e. ‘Thank you & Sorry’ based on situation.
Based on Situation
When you go to any shop you find something on the door i.e.
‘PUSH’ or ‘PULL”
Sometimes you need to PUSH
Sometimes you need to PULL
&
Sometime you can’t do both i.e. Elevator / Lift (It opens automatically) you need to wait till it open you can’t do anything except waiting.
Similarly in our life also we get different situation where we get angry/get tempered. We need act as per the situations; if you feel that situations are under control then only you can speak and tell other party.
5.We only work for any Monetary Benefit (Fayda)
We do any work only if we get any Monetary Benefit.
If I talk to him what I will get
If I do this what I will get
How I should be benefited
‘Fayda hai tho baat varna Laat’
6. No Humanity
There is no Humanity among the people
People live for themselves.
They don’t live for other.
They don’t bother somebody live or die.
Rich becoming more rich and poor becoming poorer.
No Fear of God
MAJOR SINS
01. Associating any divine partners to God Almighty
02. Murder
03. Practicing magic
04. Not Praying
05. Not paying (obligatory charity)
08. Disrespect to parents
09. Abandoning relatives (give up)
10. Fornication and Adultery (of people not married to each other & have sexual intercourse)
11. Homosexuality (sodomy)
12. Interest, usury (Riba)
13. Wrongfully consuming the property of an orphan
15. Running away from the battlefield
16. A leader's deceiving his people and being unjust to them
17. Pride and arrogance
18. Bearing false witness
19. Drinking Khamr (wine)
20. Gambling
21. Slandering chaste women (scandal/ false and damaging utterance about a person.
22. Stealing from the spoils of war
23. Stealing
24. Highway Robbery
25. Taking false oath
26. Oppression govern or treat cruelly)
27. Illegal gain
28. Consuming wealth acquired unlawfully
29. Committing suicide
30. Frequent lying
31. Judging unjustly
32. Giving and Accepting bribes
33. Woman's imitating man and man's imitating woman (try to copy each other)
34. Being cuckold (husband of an adulteress
35. Marrying a divorced woman in order to make her lawful for the husband
36. Not protecting oneself from urine
37. Showing-off
38. Learning knowledge of the religion for the sake of this world and concealing that knowledge
39. Betrayal of trust (be disloyal or treacherous)
40. Recounting favors
42. Listening (to) people's private conversations
43. Carrying tales
44. Cursing
45. Breaking contracts
46. Believing in fortune-tellers and astrologers
47. A woman's bad conduct towards her husband
48. Making statues and pictures
49. Lamenting, wailing, tearing the clothing, and doing other things of this sort when an affliction befalls
50. Treating others unjustly
51. Overbearing conduct toward the wife, the servant, the weak, and animals
52. Offending one's neighbor
54. Offending people and having an arrogant attitude toward them
55. Trailing one's garment in pride
56. Men's wearing silk and gold
57. A slave's running away from his master
59. To knowingly ascribe one's paternity to a father other than one's own
60. Arguing and disputing violently
61. with holding excess water
62. Giving short weight or measure
63. Feeling secure from God Plan’s
65. Not praying in congregation but praying alone without an excuse
66. Usurping the rights of the heir through bequests
68. Deceiving and plotting evil
NO FEAR OF GOD
Whenever Cat Drinks the Milk She Closes her Eye thinking that nobody is seeing Her. It is the Mistake of her that by closing her eyes
People do whatever they like and forget that somebody is writing your deeds, and you have to give the Answers for your deed
People do the so many sins but Become Ignorant. And think that their living very happily.
They build the house like a Spider in this world.
The most beautiful But Most Weakest House in the world.
People Forget that “ EVERY ONE SHALL TASTE DEATH ONE DAY” when could be our Day
“COME ON MY FRIENDS LETS US PRAYS; DECIDE WHICH NOW DO NOT DELAY”
May God Peaces be upon us
May god almighty Forgives and give the wisdom and knowledge.
May God almighty Show us the Right Path & give the strength to walk on it
DISCOVER YOURSELF
WHO YOU ARE