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Priya
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Posted 04-05-2009Reply

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question.... ..

"What kind of man are you looking for?"

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking.

"Do you really want to know?"

Reluctantly, he said, "Yes."



She began to expound... As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to

ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills.

I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to

ask, "What can you bring to the table?"



The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.



She quickly corrected his thought and stated,

" I am not referring to money. I need something more."

I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life."

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to

explain.



She said,

" I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally

because I need conversation and mental stimulation.

I don't need a simple-minded man.



" I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually

because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers

mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.



I need a man who is striving for perfection

financially because I don't need a financial burden.



I am looking for someone

who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman ,

but strong enough to keep me grounded.



I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order

to be submissive, I must respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't

taking care of his business.



I have no problem being submissive.. .he just has to

be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man.

I can't help a man if he can't help himself .



When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there

with a puzzled look on his face.



He said, "You're asking a lot."



She replied, " I'm worth a lot." & Every Women is Worth a Lot!!

Meghna
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  Rated +5 | Posted 05-05-2009

Hi Priya,

Nice topic to share.
I guess very few men will really give the credit for women for what they are.
They know that a woman helps them in all ways, a modern day woman is a homemaker takes care of kids and husband and also brings home a financial package in spite of all this very few men will appreciate their spouse for what they are, in the heart of hearts they know but to accept it their ego does not permit them to.

Anyways nice topic to share ,Woman is worth a lot more than she really gets....

Meghna

Tulsi
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  Rated +1 | Posted 05-05-2009

This is indeed a good one. Now a women is gaining respect in the society.There are men who understand their individuality.

Diana
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  Rated +7 | Posted 05-05-2009

Well expressed, Simple, yet comprehensive...

Yes, every woman looks for a man who can lead her, who can judge the situations, understand her, take care of her in order to be taken care of.
share her deepest emotions, help her in bringing up the kids, share her tensions...

Even today's woman would not hesitate to be submissive, though she is well educated, earns her comfort & can handle her life all alone, but, yet, she can be submissive, if the guidance & care of a man is not mistaken & over shadowed by his "ego" & "dominance"... There is a fine line between leading & demanding...


Hope for a better time, for both men & women, to understand & live with the delicate ways they have been created, instead of having conflicts & trying to change those...


Diana


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  Rated +2 | Posted 06-05-2009

Well expressed, Simple, yet comprehensive...



Yes, every woman looks for a man who ca... See Diana's complete reply


Hi Diana,

While I agree with the views expressed by you.Instead of submissive which need not be, it could be accommodative and understanding.Men and women both are equal and there is no need to be submissive or dominant.Hope you agree with my viewpoint.

Cheers!
Pradeep

Diana
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  Rated +5 | Posted 06-05-2009

Well expressed, Simple, yet comprehensive...



Yes, every woman looks for a man who ca... See Diana's complete reply


Hi Diana,



While I agree with the views expressed by you.Instead of submissive which n... See Pradeep's complete reply


Hi Pradeep,

YES, Indeed I agree...No one was born to be submissive to any other...

But this is the way it has been, it is & it will be...its by nature, something which has got so common that no one objects to it...or atleast thinks to find it strange !!!

-- A girl will change her name when she is married !
-- She should resign, relocate or even stop her career because of her husband's job's location or family reasons!
-- Kids get their father's name! even though she raises them up ! :)
-- Man gets the rights to chose the country, city or even place to live !
-- In case of different religion or citizenship, the lady should change hers according to the man's.
-- A woman is much more restricted in many ways than a man ( thats the way it is...)


I am not arguing on this matter, just said what is there around us, there is no point to dream of something which is "not real"

I wish there were more men with your way of thinking...atleast "think"...I see it very far to get that dream into a practical reality !!! unfortunately,

No matter how much a woman grows, educates, reach to the higher levels career wise, she still remains a woman ! a lady who keeps everything else aside, because of her family, her husband, her kids...everything else, her dreams, her ambitions, her talents, her career, her happiness...even her own self !

Diana
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  Rated +1 | Posted 06-05-2009

BTW, I gave few examples just to say, why did I use the word "submissive" :)

One last note, Compromise, Adjustments & Sacrifices should be from both sides...do you see that around?!

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  Rated 0 | Posted 06-05-2009

Hi Priya,

Nice topic

Who say women is not worthy
She is always but women create the problem herself.
U know saas bhau kitch kitch every one know about it
I think men is nothing at all? World is running just because of worthy women
If u see history u will find cause of each and every thing is a woman.
Regards
Ashutosh

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  Rated 0 | Posted 06-05-2009

Nice topic priya ..... and i totally agree with diana comments ............
There are only few male's who accept this fact " Every Women is Worth a Lot!! ".............

Pradeep
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  Rated +10 | Posted 06-05-2009

BTW, I gave few examples just to say, why did I use the word "submissive" :)


See Diana's complete reply


Hi Diana!

I fully agree with and edorse the views expressed by you.See, men and women are born as equal and at the time of birth of Adam and Eve this kind of dominant and submissiveness was not there.Men used to hunt and Women used to prepare the food and attend all the daily chores and from this the actual submissiveness has cropped up and this is continuing even now which is not correct.

When you open a magazine, open a web site or switch on a television what do you see first.Glorification of women's body and nothing else.She will be shown as dud without any brains and men always shown as stronger, intelligent and dynamic.Women are always being shown as centre of desire who fulfills the desires of men.Why?Whoever watches this women will get the feeling that women are submissive than men and they are less worthier than men.Then due to this cultural invasion all start treating women in similar way everywhere in real life also like brainless,unintelligent and pleasure givers.Who is responsible for this? Governments'? Men? or Society? Why women should get such kind of raw deal?Why????????

I agree with all of your views like why women should change her name after marraige and why her children do not get her name.Yes these are the differences created by ourselves and each and every one is responsible for this including those who has written our ancient scriptures and shown men as dominant instead of showing them as equal in all including great mythologies.

Compromise,Adjustments and sacrifices are inevitable as long as there are financial transactions in a relationship between man and a woman.The property sharing issues and dowry evil and what not is responsible to make women submissive.There should be no commercial transactions between both.Once these finances play a key role than the whole relationship gets spoiled.

Moreover,Why people still believe that having a girl child as a sin in many parts of India? Why most of the people stop her from studying once she attained the age of puberty?Why women are being 'purchased' by men in the name of dowry?These remain as answerless questions.

There is lot more to share and I sincerely feel that this is not the right kind of forum to share all these things.

I once again thank you Diana for all your views with which I agree and accept whole heartedly.

I'd also like to see more inputs from our knowledgeble members.

Best Regards,
Pradeep

Diana
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  Rated +6 | Posted 07-05-2009

BTW, I gave few examples just to say, why did I use the word "submissive" :)


See Diana's complete reply


Hi Diana!



I fully agree with and edorse the views expressed by you.See, men and women... See Pradeep's complete reply


Hi Pradeep !!!

First of all, I feel very sad that I am eligible to give only one thumbs up to your reply ! Wish I had more option...

Well said !!! This is what I have to say! You spoke up my mind, many things which I had not mentioned was told by you...

Great !
Very good to see that there are men who do believe in equal rights...there are so many who talk, debate & argue on this topic, but practically, if you go to their own personal life, you don’t find heaven ruling there!


Well, coming to dowry ! I guess its the other way around !! :) women who are more rich, with more dowry get the guy !!! its like an auction, its like bidding the guy ! whomever pays more, gets the chap !!!

its so funny, believe me, its not at all "culture" its disgusting & ridiculous...when a woman can educate, earn & is much capable in multi tasking than a man, the woman who gifts him his kids & take care of their bringing up much more than him...should be treated like this !!!???


Sad, very very sad...

I am 200 % in agreement with your thoughts, points & your valid questions...

Another thing which makes me sad is, here on HRLink there are so many interesting & debatable topics going on, but unfortunately you get to see few who are replying & re-replying to them...whereas, other topics related to jokes, poems (shaeris) & entertainment is more viewed, answered & shared !!!


Come on guys, we have more members here who can share their thoughts...


Cheers Pradeep,


Diana



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